The art of attracting women consists of 10% projection of success, 10% appearance, 10% intelligence, and 70% charm. In a study conducted by the University of Waterloo, 85% of the correspondents expressed that charm was the principle reason for their attraction to the opposite individual. Some people are born with the gift of being naturally charming. But most people lack the skill
Do Ladies Find YOU Attractive?
When asked, most women say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends. They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk to about their problems.
Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn’t get any farther than being just friends.
All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they can never seem to find a nice guy to date. The problem is, this isn’t exactly correct. These women aren’t lying when they say they want these things…when they think logical they do, because it makes sense. But remember, women don’t choose logically what they are attracted to.
So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down. But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control and act like a man should. So what qualities do women want in men?
What they’ve always wanted and always will want. Women want real men, men that are in control and don’t ask for permission to do anything. They don’t want to be in charge, they want someone to be in charge of them. I know this sounds harsh, but it’s true.
Here are some examples, have ever noticed that…
When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how beautiful she is she shies away from you? This probably happens every time you try and start a conversation. But when you…
Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved in the conversation and take you more seriously.
Also, have you noticed…
When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her to an expensive dinner, she usually thanks you the evening and goes out with another guy? But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you are equals she feels attracted to you, because you’re not catering to her every need.
Have you noticed when….
You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny. But, when you don’t call her and you act like you’re busy and could live with her or without her, she won’t stop calling you. The truth is women don’t want to be catered to, spoiled or treated like princesses. This is what women want from a man…
First of all, women want you to be confident in your self. So, if you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off. Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around. They don’t want to talk about what you are going to do, they just want you to lead the way and do it.
They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional. So if you are the kind of guy that has a hard time keeping his emotions to himself, you are going to have to work on it.
They want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring and dull. Just because you are into collecting stamps or collecting model planes, it does not mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your hobby. Women want you to make them laugh. So again, you have to be entertaining and fun.
They don’t want to know everything about you all at once, they want to wonder. So, no matter how tempting it may be you don’t have to tell them you whole life story. Women want to keep guessing. They want you to have more to talk about then “the game last night”, they want you to be interesting.
They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to have a life goal or something you are trying to achieve. In other words, they want you to know what you want from life.
